Lo mbhalo ungaba obaluleke kakhulu futhi obaluleke kakhulu maqondana nokwazi ukuthi kufanele wenze kanjani. Uzobona ukuthi ekugcineni, amaphutha wesithombe somkhiqizo axhumene kakhulu nokungafuni ukuwenza. Ukuzibona kwethu kuhlobene eduze nesimo sengqondo esenza ngaso izinto. Yilapho lapho ngomoya wokuthanda futhi ungenzi lutho olungalungile, singadala nomphumela ophambene. Kulungile, kungumuntu, futhi mhlawumbe uzibona ubonakalisiwe kuzo. Kwanele ukuzwelana kancane nomphakathi ofuna ukubhekana nawo ukuze uqonde ukuthi balindeleni lapho bekubona, noma kunalokho, balindele kumkhiqizo wakho.
Ngalesi sizathu, ngizokukhombisa uhlu olunamaphutha ajwayelekile futhi alungiswe kalula. Ekugcineni, wena uqobo uzokwazi ukubona ukuthi ukuba nguwe, nokuqonda ukuthi yini oyifunayo kwabanye, nakho kuzokwenza wazi ukuthi ungayilungisa kanjani. Futhi-ke, umkhuba udala umkhuba, ngakho-ke uma kungaba nzima kuwe, ungakhathazeki. Khumbula lawa maphutha ajwayelekile noma amathiphu, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi azokudalela ukuthi ukwenze kangcono.
Ungafuni ukondla ukuzazisa kwakho
Ngiqala ngalena ngoba ijwayelekile kakhulu. Futhi ngukuthi sonke sinesidingo sokubathanda, nokuthandwa. Ungakuphiki, akwenzeki lutho, kuyisidingo esiyisisekelo. Kepha inkinga ivame ukufika, ngomzamo wokuyithanda. Asikuboni lokho, futhi khona lapho ngokugcina engqondweni ngaso sonke isikhathi "Kumele ngithande, ngithande, ngithande ..." njengesiyingi, sikusebenzisa ngokweqile lokho.
Lawa amanye amathiphu avame ukwenzeka:
- Awunaki isithombe somkhiqizo lapho cabanga (noma ngabe ngokungazi) ukuthi isithombe nguwe. Futhi cha, akufanele uziveze ngokwakho, kepha lokho amaklayenti akho okufanele akulindele kuwe. Kungazizwa kukuhle ukudlulisa imicabango noma izimiso zakho, kepha ngabe udala inani kumkhiqizo wakho?
- Ufuna ukubukeka kahle nawo wonke umuntu, futhi ngandlela thile, uyesaba ukuzibeka ohlangothini olulodwa. Awufuni ukulimaza noma ngubani noma ukubenza bazizwe bengelutho. Futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi kuyinto ejwayelekile, kepha kwesinye isikhathi, akulimazi ukusho izinto ukuzama ukwenza okuhle nawo wonke umuntu kuhlala kuyiziphukuphuku ekugcineni (Qaphela ngikwenzile nje).
- Futhi awudingi ukuthopha nokuncoma izethameli. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukululaza ukuthi ngubani othatha isitha sakho noma umncintiswano wakho. Kungacasula, futhi kubi kakhulu.
Ungahlanganisi okwakho nochwepheshe
Ukuchaza umugqa phakathi komuntu siqu nochwepheshe kwesinye isikhathi kungabonakala kufiphele, kepha kukhona izingqikithi ezisobala. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-Brand yakho uqobo kumele igxile kulokho okwenzayo, kepha hhayi ukukuxuba nempilo yakho engaphandle kwayo. Okungukuthi, akukho okushicilelwe ku- "vidorra que te pegas" noma "kusoso lokugcina lwangempelasonto."
Uma kwenzeka ucabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi bayakulandela, futhi nganoma yisiphi isizathu, kuza njengomoya wobukhulu noma onamandla, noma. Khumbula ukuthi abantu bebenentshisekelo kumfanekiso wakho womkhiqizo, nokuthi ukuwuguqula ngeke kushintshe abakulindele. Buyisela iqiniso kude kakhulu, futhi awuthandi ukuthola ngokungazelelwe okuthunyelwe okungekho obukufuna.
Uma ungomunye walabo abathumela izinto zabo uqobo cha, yeka ukukwenza. Kuzoba okungcono kakhulu.
Ungakopishi noma ubani
Lutho ukulingisa abantu besithathu, obabheka njengesethenjwa sakho, bese unciphisa futhi unamathisele okuncane. Isizathu esisobala ongase ukwazi ukusibona ukuthi othile uzobe ekubhobozile. Kepha cha, noma kungahle kube nalowo mphumela, angiyi lapho.
Ake sicabange ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, unabalandeli, abangaboni amaqhinga akho. Konke kuhamba kahle, kodwa… Kwenzekani uma kufanele uphendule othile? o Kufanele uthumele noma wenze okuthile ngokungaphezulu noma kancane ngokushesha? Akukona ukuthi awunandawo ongaphendukela kuyo, kodwa ukuthi usuku luyeza lapho abantu beqala ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlobo lwabo (wena uqobo lwakho) akuselona ababeyibo. Abasebenzisi baphuma othandweni kalula, futhi bavalelise.
Ngakho-ke ukubaluleka kokuba nguwe. Uyakholelwa kuwe uqobo Uyazi ukuthi lokho okunikelayo kubalulekile? Bese ungesabi. Kwenze ngendlela yakho, isikhathi sizoyiphelelisa, futhi ngaphandle kokuzenzisa, uzothola imiphumela engcono.
Shicilela okuqukethwe uma kukufanele
Akunjalo! Futhi ngikusho ngokugcizelela. Bheka izibalo, futhi uma ungenazo, qagela amahora abantu abaningi abazokwazi ukuwaxhuma kuwebhusayithi yakho. Kepha akukho muntu opheqa i-Facebook noma amanye ama-social network ngezikhathi ezithile njengo-3 ekuseni.
Uma leso kuyisikhathi sokuthi kube kuhle kuwe ukuthi ube nokuthile okuzoshicilelwa kahle, kuhle kakhulu. Kepha isheduli ezothunyelwa ngesikhathi esifanelekile. Njengo-11 ekuseni, isibonelo.
Bheka ikhwalithi, ngaphezu kobuningi
Ngikubonile lokhu ezinkampanini eziningi, zombili ngisebenzile futhi sengizibonile. Ukujaha ukuthola imiphumela, ingcindezi, nokulinganisa ukuthi kungakanani okwenziwe ... Yebo, akusebenzi, imvamisa ayikho ikhwalithi kuyo. Ngikunika isibonelo:
- Ungathanda, ngokwesibonelo, ukufunda ibhulogi eshicilela okuthunyelwe kwamagama angama-300 nsuku zonke? Kuphi ngaphezu kwalokho, bachaza okuncane, ngokunganele, nangomuzwa wokuthi kubhalwe ngokuphelele? Noma ungathanda okuphambene? Ibhulogi mhlawumbe eshicilela kanye ngesonto, ngumuntu ongahle angabi nesikhathi esiningi, kepha otshala okuthunyelwe kwamagama ayi-1.500 nakho konke okuchazwe kahle, kuchaziwe… woza, ikhwalithi enhle. Ukhetha ini?
Kufanele uzame lokho ngokwakho. Uma unesikhathi kahle, futhi uma kungenjalo, ukutotosa okuqukethwe kwakho. UNapoleon uthe ... "Ngigqokise kancane, ngiyaphuthuma."
Yazi abalandeli bakho nezinhloso zakho
Hlobo luni lwabantu ofuna ukukhomba? Chaza izithameli zakho ngokuchaza izinhloso zakho. Uma ungabazi, uyakhubeka. Ukungazichazi kwakho ngeke kukwenze ugqame entweni ethile.
Ngokwami bekuyinto ebengikuthola kunzima ukuyiqonda, mhlawumbe yingakho ngigcizelela. Kwaze kwaba yilapho ngithola ibhulogi engangithanda lapho ngangiqonda. Umfana owayeyigqoka cishe akakaze ashicilele lutho (ngokuhambisana nephuzu langaphambili engikushilo lona). Kodwa-ke, konke okuthunyelwe ayenakho kwakwesabeka. Yonke into ibinemininingwane ephelele kakhulu, ibanzi, ibisebenzisa izithombe ezimbalwa kepha ibanzi, futhi ngamafuphi ... kuyintokozo ukufunda okuqukethwe kwayo kuvezwe kahle kangaka. Ingxenye yakho? Iphrofayili echazwe kakhulu yabantu. Kodwa-ke, ngiqoqa ukuthi bekungemina ngedwa obuke iwebhusayithi yakho kaninginingi. Okwamanje ibekwe kahle kakhulu, futhi ngemuva kwale minyaka, yaziwa kakhulu.
Irekhodi elincane noma cha
Akukho okwakhiwe ngobusuku obubodwa, njengoba kufanele uzame ukujwayela. Ungavumeli isiza sakho sife. Futhi ngokuhambisana nalokho engikushilo ekuqaleni. Ungathumeli nsuku zonke uma ungakwazi, kodwa yebo, yenza isikhathi sokunikela ngokuqukethwe okusha okungenani kanye ngeviki. Kubalulekile ekusindeni koMkhiqizo wakho nokuthi awangeni ekukhohlakalweni.
Thenga abalandeli ukuze wandise izithameli zakho
Kungenzeka ukuthi ngomoya wokwandisa izethameli zakho ubheke ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthenga abalandeli. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyindlela ejwayelekile yokuhlola umsebenzi wakho ngokususelwa ekwandeni kwabalandeli oye waba nabo. Kepha ingabe ukubheka njengokuzibandakanya okuhle? Noma lokho kusho ukuthi kunezinkulungwane zabalandeli nokuthi uma ushicilela okuqukethwe kwesinye isikhathi awutholi nokuthandwa? Cha, ayinempilo, ingeyakho noma yephaketheni lakho.
Kungukungasebenzi kahle okwenzayo kumkhiqizo wakho, ngoba awukwazi ukuvusa intshisekelo kubantu lapho kushaywa incwadi yokubheka (ukuthi bekukuhle kanjani, kepha kuyiqiniso). Kulayini wakho, nabalandeli abakwazisa okwenzayo bazoholela abanye ukuthi bakulandele. Kunjalo.
Ungaphenduli kumazwana abekiwe
Ukuphendula imibuzo yabasebenzisi kuhlala kutholwa njengomusa, ukunakwa nokukhathalela ohlangothini lokuthi ngubani ophethe leyo ndawo. Ngisho namazwana womsebenzisi ongahle ungathandi noma usho into embi. Kungcono ukuthi, ukuqala ukuvimba abasebenzisi.
Imvamisa, ukuvula intambo ngasese ukuze uxoxe nomsebenzisi akuwona umqondo omubi. Kodwa-ke, engikushoyo akusho ukuthi kufanele sikubekezelele ukuthukwa noma abantu abazolimaza ngempela ngemikhuba emibi. Uma kunjalo, yebo, into enhle ukungabanaki laba bantu, noma ukungabaphenduli. Ubufakazi buyazikhulumela.
Ukungagcwalisi iphrofayela yakho
Okokugcina, ukucisha iso kuwo wonke amaphrofayli esiwafinyelela futhi awasitsheli okuningi. Hhayi ukuthi bangobani noma bangobani, benzani, noma bakuphi, futhi akukho lutho.
Nikela imizuzu eyi-10, akudingekile ukubhala nokubhala ngokweqile isiza. Vele nawe chaza kancane ukuthi ungubani nokuthi wenzani, isithombe noma i-logo yakho uqobo, nokuthi ungakuthola kanjani, kungcono kakhulu kunephrofayili ngaphandle kolwazi.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi konke lokhu kwehluleka ungakuhlola futhi ukubheke kusuka manje. Akunzima ukukulungisa, into enzima ukuyibeka engqondweni futhi uhlale ungazenzi. Kepha njengoba ngishilo ekuqaleni kwendatshana, ekugcineni, ngemuva kokuyiphinda kaningi, umkhuba nokuziphatha okuhle kuyenziwa, ukuze isithombe sakho somkhiqizo sihlale simi kahle futhi singalimali.