I-Brainstorming, edibanisa ingqondo ngeSpanish, Yenye yeendlela ezaziwayo kakhulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzisebenzisa ngaxesha lithile. Kodwa ngaba uyayazi yonke into ethethwa koku?
Le ndlela yokusebenza ikunceda ukuba uvelise imibono, kodwa ukuyifezekisa kwaye uyenze isebenze i-100%, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba iphuhliswa njani, izitshixo kunye neminye imiba ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo. Ziphose kuyo?
Ukucinga ngengqondo: yintoni obu buchule
Njengoko besinixelele ngaphambili, ukungqubanisa ingqondo, okwabizwa ngokuba kukungqubanisa ingqondo, bubuchule obusetyenziswayo ukuvelisa izimvo. Injongo kukufumana uninzi lwazo kangangoko kunokwenzeka., nangona kamva kufuneka uhlalutye nganye kuzo ukuze ubone ukuba inokwenzeka na ngengxaki ekhoyo.
Ngokomzekelo, ungacebisana ngamagama ebhrendi. Ngale ndlela izimvo zinikwa kwaye emva koko zihlalutywe ukuze ekugqibeleni zihlale noyena ummeli okanye lowo uthandwa kakhulu kwaye uhambelana noko kufunwayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukungqubanisa ingqondo kwenziwa kwiqela ekubeni le ndlela inokwenzeka ukuba ube nobuchule obungakumbi xa kufikelela ekunikeni izisombululo okanye iimbono koko kucetywayo. Nangona kunjalo, oko akuthethi ukuba ayinakusetyenziswa ngabanye, kwaye ufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo kakhulu ngayo.
Esinye sezitshixo kule ngxoxo yengqondo kukuba akukho nto inokuhlolwa. Oko kukuthi, nokuba bubudenge, bulula okanye bungabalulekanga bunokubonakala, kufuneka bube phakathi kwazo zonke iimbono. Abahluzwanga ngalo mzuzu wokuqala, bacelwa kuphela ukuba baqalise izimvo kuba, kamva, baya kufundwa.
Umntu wokuqala ukwenza obu buchule nguAlex F. Osborn, umbhali waseMerika owathi, ngowe-1939, waqulunqa eli gama. eweUCharles Hutchison Clark nguye owaphuhlisa obu buchule kwaye namhlanje nguye esimtyala kuye.
Kusetyenziselwa ntoni ukungqubanisa ingqondo?
Ukubonile oku kungasentla, usenokuba ukuphawule okoe injongo yokubonisana ngengqondo kukubonelela ngenani elikhulu lezimvo, ngaphandle kokucinga malunga nokuba zinokwenzeka na okanye akunjalo kwingxaki engqondweni. Oku kuvumela abantu ukuba babe nobuchule kwaye bangazicingeli; kodwa nokuba kukhuthazwe inkcubeko yeqela kuba wonke umntu unegalelo.
Nangona bubuchwephesha obusetyenziswa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into emsebenzini nakwiindawo zaseyunivesithi, yona akuthethi ukuba ayinakusetyenziswa kwinqanaba elithile kunye nomntu ngamnye okanye kwezinye iindawo.
Enyanisweni umntu unokuba yinto efanelekileyo eguquguqukayo kwiiklasi, iindibano zocweyo, njl.
Imithetho yokucinga ngengqondo
Into abangayaziyo abantu abaninzi kukuba ukungqubanisa ingqondo kufuna imithetho emine ukuthotyelwa. Zezi:
Beka phambili ubungakanani kunomgangatho
Ngamanye amazwi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba neengcamango ezininzi kangangoko kunomgangatho wezi. Nangona injongo kukufumana isisombululo esigqibeleleyo kwingxaki ekhoyo, inyaniso kukuba ukuze oku kwenzeke kwangaphambili, kuyimfuneko ukuza neengcamango ezininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ukudibanisa ezininzi kunika isisombululo esifanelekileyo.
Amaxesha amaninzi siye sithande ukungathethi nantoni na ngenxa yokoyika ukuba ingcamango imbi, kodwa kule nto Ukucamngca ngengqondo kusekelwe "akukho mbono imbi".
Iingcamango azigxekwa.
Ngokusekwe kwinto yokugqibela esiyithethileyo ngaphambili, akukho mbono imbi, kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba kungabikho namnye kwiqela ekumele ukuba agxeke, ahlomle, axoxe okanye ahlekise ngezimvo zabanye oogxa bakhe.. Ngapha koko, kubalulekile ukuba oku kuhlonitshwe ngalo lonke ixesha ukucamngca ngengqondo kuqhutywa, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, yiyeke kuba oko buchule bunokwaphulwa.
Zonke iingcamango zirekhodwa
Kufuneka ubeke ecaleni subjectivity yakho. Zonke iingcamango eziphuma kubuchule bokucinga kufuneka ziqokelelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga ukuba ziluncedo kangakanani okanye akunjalo. Enye yeempazamo ezinkulu xa kuziwa ekuqhutyweni kukuba "umlawuli" wale ndlela, xa ubhalisa ingcamango, unika uluvo lwakhe. Oku kunciphisa umnqweno wabanye wokufaka isandla, kwanalowo uyenzileyo, kuba eziva evaliwe okanye iingcamango zakhe azinamsebenzi.
Iingcamango zabanye zinika iingcamango kwabanye
Amaxesha amaninzi, ngakumbi ekuqaleni, kunzima ukuqalisa nokunika izimvo, ngenxa yokoyika ukujongwa, ukuhleka, njl. Kodwa njengoko intlanganiso iqhubela phambili, kunokwenzeka ukuba ezi zityhutyha ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba ezinye iingcamango zivelise ezinye zivela kwabanye abantu kwaye ke esona sisombululo singcono siyakhiwa.
Izitshixo zokubonisana ngengqondo
Ukuba emva kwayo yonke into oyibonileyo kubonakala ngathi licebo elilungileyo ukulisebenzisa kwishishini lakho, kusapho lwakho okanye emsebenzini wakho, into yokuqala omele uyazi yindlela yokwenza. Siqala kwinto yokuba ilula kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuyicwangcisa nokwenza. Kodwa ukuze isebenze kukho iinkalo ezininzi ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo.
Enye yezona ziphambili kukukhetha umntu oza kuba yinkokeli kwaye uya kubhalisa enye nenye yeembono ngaphandle kokwenza ubuso, izimvo, iingxoxo ... Kufuneka kube yinjongo enokwenzeka kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ube "nobuso be-poker".
Lo mntu uya kuba noxanduva lokulungiselela iseshoni. Ngokukodwa, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo:
- Inani labathathi-nxaxheba abaya kungenelela.
- Uhlobo lwabathathi-nxaxheba (isini, ubuzwe, amava…). Ngamanye amaxesha abanye banokuziva besoyika ngabanye, ngoko ukuba ulawula ukwenza iqela elidibeneyo, liya kusebenza ngcono.
- Indawo eya kwenzeka kuyo, ukuze wonke umntu azive ekhululekile.
Emva kokuba yonke into imisiwe kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba baqeshwe, phambi kokuqalisa inkokeli kufuneka ikhumbule isizathu sokuba babekhona kunye nemithetho ekufuneka ilawule ngexeshaokanye (okuyimizuzu engama-30). Emva kwelo xesha lokucinga, ubuncinane iyure ichithwa kuxoxwa ngengcamango nganye, ukulahla ezo zingenamsebenzi ngelo xesha kwaye ukhethe ophumeleleyo.
Ngethuba lemizuzu engama-30, umsebenzi wenkokeli kukubhala phantsi nganye yeengcamango ezinikwe kwibhodi emhlophe okanye kwikhompyutheni, ngaphandle kokukhangela nayiphi na into okanye ukucinga ukuba kungcono okanye kubi kunomnye. Kufuneka ubhale phantsi oko bakuxelela kona.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba yintoni na ukungqubanisa ingqondo, uyakhumbula na xa wawuthatha inxaxheba kwindibano yokubonisana?